Positive or Negative? Which are You?

ATTITUDES


POSITIVE TRAITS		NEGATIVE TRAITS
accepts authority, loyal, devoted		rebellious, defiant
accepts what's given		ignores, rejects what's given
affectionate		distant, cold, aloof
aspiring, ambitious, motivated		self-satisfied, unmotivated
candid		closed, guarded, secretive
caring		uncaring, unfeeling, callous
change; accepts, embraces		rejects change
cheerful		cheerless, gloomy, sour, grumpy
considerate, thoughtful		inconsiderate, thoughtless
cooperative		uncooperative, unhelpful, combative
courageous		cowering, fearful
courteous		rude, impolite
decisive		indecisive
devoted		uncommitted, uncaring, hostile
determined		indecisive, unsure
does what is necessary, right		does what is convenient
perseveres, endures		relents, gives up
enthusiastic		unenthusiastic, apathetic, indifferent
expansive		kept back, tight, constricting
faith in life		life can't be trusted
faith in oneself		lack of faith in self
faith in others		others can't be relied on or trusted
flexible		inflexible, rigid, unbending, stubborn
forgiving		unforgiving, resentful, spiteful
focused		unfocused, scattered
freedom given to others		authoritarian, controlling
friendly		unfriendly, distant, aloof, hostile
frugal, thrifty		wasteful, spendthrift
generous		stingy, miserly, selfish
goodwill		ill-will, malice, hatred
grateful		ungrateful, unappreciative
hard-working		lazy
honest		dishonest, deceiving, lying
humble		arrogant, conceited, ego-centric
interested		indifferent, uncaring
involved		complacent, indifferent
jealous, not		jealous, envious, covetous
kind		unkind, uncaring, cruel, mean
mature		immature
modest		vain
open-minded, tolerant		narrow, close, small-minded, intolerant
optimistic		pessimistic
perfects		allows imperfection
persistent, sustaining		flagging, fleeting, unsustaining
positive		negative
practical		impractical, not viable
punctual		late, not on time
realistic		impractical
reliable		unreliable, undependable
respectful		disrespectful, rude, impolite
responsibility; takes-		blames others
responsible		unreliable, unreceptive
self-confident		lack of self confidence, insecure
self-directed		directed by externals
self-disciplined		undisciplined, unrestrained, indulgent
self-esteem; high-		self-esteem; confidence - low
self-giving		self-centered
self-reliant		dependent
selfless		selfish
sensitive		insensitive, indifferent
serious		silly, trivial, petty
sincere		insincere, dishonest
social independence		social approval required
sympathetic		unsympathetic, unfeeling
systematic		unsystematic, disorganized, disorderly
takes others point of view		insist on own point of view
thoughtful towards others		thoughtless, inconsiderate, callous
trusting		suspicious, mistrusting
unpretentious		pretentious, affected, ostentatious
unselfish		selfish
willing does, willingness		unwilling, reluctant, recalcitrant
work-oriented		convenience first, lazy