What Kind of Woman are You?

Today's society is producing some poor excuses for women in this day and time. They think their worth is found in how many men they can have sex with; how many friends they have; how popular they are; that their children are just another form of control & manipulation for their own personal gain and a burden to them and their freedom; and family is just someone else to place the blame on for their stupidity, bad choices and bad lifestyle, but look to family to bail them out of their self-made gutters and problems.
Proverbs 31 describes the woman, we as females should all strive to be.
She is described as a woman with impressive and excellent qualities, more valuable than rubies. She is happy and content, because she lives a life that is honorable, respectable and valued, without all the cheating, lying, deceiving, and disrespect that brings chaos and drama to their life and the lives around them.
She is also a great example and witness to those around her. This means she is not afraid to be different from the world's idea of a woman, and be the honorable woman she was meant to be, and live an honorable and respectable lifestyle in this world of evil.
She is dependable and devoted to her household, takes great care of her husband, children and her home. She doesn't take part of idleness which leads to evil doings, evil thoughts and her downfall.  "Idle minds and hands are the devils playground and workshop."
A Proverbs 31 woman is kind and generous. She is the prefect woman, wife, and mother. She is wise. She loves the Lord, lives her life for the Lord and in everything she does is to the glory of God!!!
I know it sounds impossible to be a Proverbs 31 woman but it is possible. It is impossible for a human woman to be a Proverbs 31 woman but ALL things are possible when you add God to your life!!! We can never be prefect all on our own but God is our helper. He can make it very possible and He makes things right & perfect. By giving everything up to Jesus, the struggle of being perfect will go away and we will see a great transformation in ourselves and will begin living as a Proverbs 31 woman. We may never be faultless as a human, but we can be perfect in God's eyes, and this will transform us more and more like a Proverbs 31 woman with every passing day.
What kind of woman are you?
A Proverbs 31 Woman:
Integrity, honor, devoted, respectable, reliable, with impressive and excellent qualities, great example and witness to others in your everyday life, kind, generous, wise, humble, obedient, virtuous, happy, content, valued and valuable, and the perfect woman, wife and mother.
Or the Wrong Kind of Woman like some of these women:
Bathsheba:
Adulterous and  a murderer ( you can also kill a person, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually with your words, actions and your lifestyle)
Delilah:
Deceived and destroyed men and family lifestyles and values with her feminine qualities ( these days she would have been called a slut, a whore, a home-wrecker and an enemy of God)
Jezebel:
Extremely notoriously evil woman in every way, she also murdered prophets of God.

Strive to be what God intended for you to be, a "PROVERBS 31 WOMAN"

Signs of the END of Time

The Bible is full of knowledge; maps of life; instructions on marriage, child rearing, life's do's and don'ts; poverty or prosperity; sickness or health; and a lot more. Yes, the Bible also gives us the signs of the end times.
I hear people ask all the time, "what is wrong with people today", "what is going on with the kids of today", "why is the weather acting crazy and so many natural disasters", "why are there so many young people dying at such a young age"? Life has greatly changed for the worst since I was a kid.
The only answer I have is, "read the book, The Bible", and that we are nearing the end of time and all that God said would happen if we turned from Him.
Children are rebellious against God and their parents, parents giving away their children for their mate, drugs, etc., crime rate has increased to great heights, false preachers out for money & personal gain, increase of occult and false prophets, wars all over the world, deadly diseases, famine/poverty, erratic weather and natural disasters, homosexuality increases with national support, marriage forsaken, government against God selling us out to heathen nations.... so on and so on. Read the book!!!
In reality the entire Bible is full of warnings, instructions and information, that we as sinful self-centered humans have ignored our entire lives. So, what should we expect to happen when we have totally ignored God and His word.
There are signs of the end times but what should that matter? You should be ready to meet your maker in heaven or spend an eternity in hell every second that you are still alive. You may never live long enough to see the ends times, your end time could be any second in the blink of an eye.
So, stop focusing on the end of the world & put your focus on "YOUR" end of time, cause you never know when your time will be over!!!

Liar or LIAR ?

At some point in time everyone tells a lie, whether it's a little white lie or omitting the truth, which is also a form of lying.
When a child learns to talk, they will lie in order to test the power of their words, their ability to manipulate, to get out of trouble and to get what they want. Sometimes lying gets worse with time and age, which is the beginning of problems if not stopped as a child. When the lying is not stopped and they are allowed to get away with lying, it encourages them to continue their lies and deceptions.
"LIARS" will continue to lie, concoct more lies to cover up and protect themselves from being found out as a liar.
Pathological liars (which is a description, not a diagnosis) lie about most everything, large and small. They lie to protect themselves, look good, personal gain socially and financially, and to avoid punishment. Then you have the liars who knowingly lie for personal gain, who get in trouble with the law, these are known as being Sociopaths.
Sometimes liars are so good at lying that it may take some time for you to realize that you are dealing with a pathological liar or a sociopath, not just an occasional liar.
There are clues and signs of a liar's behavior that should throw up red flags warning you, that you are dealing with a liar.
Avoiding eye contact or looking down during parts of a conversation, is a sign of lying.
Voice variation of pitch or the rate of speech, is a sign of lying. In some cases they will use a lot of um-ms and ahhs during their conversations.
Turning their body away, covering their face or mouth, fidgeting of their hands and/or legs is a sign of lying.
Making statements that contradict other stories or statements, should tell you that you are dealing with a liar.
Getting loud and/or irate during a conversation, and/or threatening to leave, when they think you do not believe their lies, is also another good sign of lying.
The number one way of not falling into a liar's trap is to refuse to be a victim of a liar. Open your eyes, ears and mind, and stop ignoring all the signs of a "LIAR"!!!

You, "A Real Man", You Think?

You think you are a real man? Do you guys even have a clue what  "A Real Man" is? Ladies do you even know what you are to be looking for in guys so you can find yourselves "A Real Man"? Society's idea of "A Real Man" is deceiving, misleading, a lie and just flat out wrong!!! It isn't someone that has male genitals hanging between their legs running around trying to convince everyone including themselves that they are "A Real Man".
The characteristics of "A Real Man" are very plain and simple, and the bad part is there are very very few real men in the world today. The characteristics of "A Real Man" is not what man can beat on his chest the hardest, who can yell the loudest, who can bully others, who can manipulate, con, cheat, lie and abuse others or who can bench press the most.
Below are the characteristics of "A Real Man":
HUMILITY - Humility demands you know your weaknesses and that you are modest about your strengths, not running around bragging, boasting and parading your strengths trying to convince others just how great "you think you are".
Man's sin nature tells him he is to be sinfully proud, arrogant and boastful. Pride is also another one of man's greatest downfalls. Sinfully proud, arrogance,ego boasting, and misleading pride will always get a man into trouble."A Real Man" does NOT display or act sinfully proud, arrogant, boastful or prideful. 1st Peter 3:6.
A humble man can recognizes the truth that there are more powerful people than he and that God is the only true power that created him and can save him. He recognizes his own weaknesses and failings. He recognizes where praise is due and not to himself. "A Real Man" has the maturity to be humble and meek.
MEEKNESS - Meekness is NOT weakness! It is the combination of humility and trust. The meek man understands his own limits and relies on God who is more powerful.
"A Real Man" is meek and submits (follows and obeys) to authority and the authority of God, who will give him strength and courage. Meekness is the key to "Victory". James 4:7.
STRENGTH and COURAGE - Strength and courage will come from and rise out of meekness. This is not physical strength or physical courage. The strength of mind and emotions will bring out fearless courage.
Strength and courage will mark "Real Men". The strength and courage is there because "A Real Man" is part of a mission and willing to stand up for what is right, be counted, and sacrifice himself if need be. "A Real Man" is honest at all times no matter what.
LEADERSHIP - "A Real Man" knows he is going in the right direction and leads others. A leader has convictions and he inspires others. Guys who father a child outside of marriage are NOT real men. Guys who shack up with a woman instead of marrying her is NOT real men. Guys who do NOT lead their families in the right direction legally, ethically, morally and religiously are NOT real men.
Leadership is the mark of "A Real Man". Leadership does NOT mean dictatorship. Real men lead by example and persuasion, NOT by power or threats. 1st Tim. 3:5; Titus 1.
Leadership demands other characteristics of "A Real Man"; mentor/teacher.
MENTOR/TEACHER - Mentoring is a process of passing on the TRUE characteristics of "A Real Man". Real men mentor and sharpen other men. "A Real Man" mentors and trains his children in the right way to go and lifestyle. A father/real man will mentor/teach and lead his children by example of all the characteristics of "A Real Man" - humility, meekness, strength, courage, leadership and integrity. Deut. 6:4-9; Eph. 6:3,4; Col. 4:21; 1st Tim. 3:4,5.
INTEGRITY - Integrity is moral soundness and wholeness. "A Real Man" with integrity is honest, he keeps his word, and he holds fast to his principles, no matter what. He stands firm and does not waver. He who walks in integrity walks securely, but he who perverts his ways will be found out. Prov. 10:9.
Integrity is important in everything; our lives, socially, and in business. Your integrity is important as "A Real Man" so that others knows that you can be trusted and dependable.
"A Real Man" keeps his promises, practices what he preaches and does NOT lie.
PROVIDER - "A Real Man" works and provides for his family. Provider doesn't just mean financially but also looking out for and caring for his families needs physically, emotionally, and mentally. "A Real Man" is not lazy and does not look for a handout. Tim. 5:8; Thess. 3:10-13.
"A Real Man lives a disciplined life, providing for his family and others. Eph. 4:28.
FRIEND - A friend is a friend in the truest sense, not someone who has a lot of acquaintances. "A Real Man" is a friend to his wife, loving her more than himself, giving up himself for her, and putting her first before himself and all others. "A Real Man" puts God first and then his wife second. That is a sacrificial love, putting God and his wife before himself.
The bottom line is that "A Real Man" is a Godly man because an ungodly a man CANNOT do what "A Real Man" is to do, not without God and God's help. Psalms 15:1-5.
"A Real Man" has the same characteristics as in Jesus - humility, mentoring, integrity, provider, friend, honesty. If you want to be "A Real Man" you need to become like Jesus. Romans 8:29.

You guys without Jesus may be able to develop some of these characteristics to a small degree, but you will never be "A Real Man" until you come to know Jesus and His characteristics start taking over your sinful characteristics of societies ideas of what a real man is.

Change Your Mindset, Change Your Life

Change your mindset and you can change your life into the life you want!!! Negative/evil thoughts ruins your internal self, which ruins your life!!!
It is impossible to love others when you do not truly love your self in a positive/good and right way. Self-hatred and anger damages you more than you realize. The negative/evil self-talk that you do inside your head is the basis of most of your problems and negative/bad things that happen in your life. The negative/evil mindset/thoughts and the anger it produces is the downfall to you having the good life you want.
When you turn your anger inwards it becomes depression. The more anger you feel, the more depressed you become. Depression feeds on negative/evil thoughts along with the self-pity, hurts and disappointments from life. So round and round you go until your life becomes a living hell that you created.
Your mindset is the internal thoughts that your brain plays over and over again. Your mindset is the way you believe, think and feel about yourself, your life and everything you come into contact. Your mindset is internal and creates your true self-image. When you do not get the type love and support you need, even if it is negative/evil, it tears down your self-image even more. And as sick as it sounds, some people seek out and thrive on negative/evil attention, love & support, instead of positive/good. When you do not receive the type love and support you want it can cause you to feel ugly, unworthy, abandoned, unloved, and will eventually turn into anger. If the anger is turned inwards it can cause depression and sickness. If the anger is turned outwards it can cause rebellion, defiance, disrespect for yourself and others, social problems with the law or even worse. Your depression and anger must be fixed correctly before you can make positive changes in yourself and your life.
Your depression (anger turned inward) is not hurting anyone but yourself. You must learn to forgive yourself, forgive others and turn loose of your anger. The longer you hang onto it the longer you will remain sickly and unstable. It is not easy to forgive and turn loose of your anger but the unconditional love of God is the only way you can release the anger and be totally healed. To get your mindset, your heart and your life straight, first you have to ask God to forgive you for all the negative/evil wrongs you have committed against Him, others and yourself. Then and only then will you be released from all the negative/evils you brought onto yourself and into your life.
Before positive changes can take place and work, your mindset/thoughts, your self-image must change from negative/evil thinking to positive/good thinking. If you have negative/low self-confidence and negative/low self-esteem, you cannot have positive changes in yourself or your life. You must realize that God did not make a mistake and did not make junk when He created you. You are not junk/mistake and you are worthy of everything good in yourself and in your life that you want & all that God has to give you.
Building up your self-image and self-confidence will bring positive/good into you and your life. God doesn't want His children to be sickly, poor or lack for anything. Being sickly, poor or lacking is because you  subconsciously choose to sabotage your self, your highest good and your life. By changing your mindset , your thought/belief patterns and how you truly feel about yourself to positive/good can bring immediate positive/good  into your life.
Your mind is constantly telling you either negative/evil statements or positive/good statements convincing you one way or the other how to think, act and feel. Your positive/good mind's statements can convince you that you are happy, cheerful, loving, inspired, motivated and effective. Your negative/evil mind's statements can dis-empower you, causing you pain, misery, suffering, sadness, depression, fear, anxiety, helplessness and hopelessness. Your negative/evil mindset is not allowing you to be the way that you know you need to be or do what you know you need to do. If you do not change your negative/evil mindset, you will never become the positive/good person or have a positive/good life you want and desire.
To change your mindset you must first release all of your negative/evil lifestyle and thought patterns, then replace them with all new positive/good lifestyle and thought patterns. Replacing your negative/evil thought patterns with new positive/good thought patterns becomes easier and more relaxing for you with each passing day. Everyone needs to make a list of all the positive affirmations and changes we want in ourselves and our lives to help keep us on track and from slipping back into the negative/evil that we know we need to stay away from.
Thoughts are energy, either positive/good or negative/evil energy. There is NO in between. When a negative/evil thought enters into our brain/thoughts, we tend to focus on that negative/evil thought, which in turn produces more negative/evil thought, until it becomes out of control & takes over. The thoughts you think, negative/evil or positive/good, begins to display in your life by your actions and appearance. Your negative/evil thoughts will bring negative/evil events, blocking positive/good events, making you a slave to your negative/evil emotions, thoughts, beliefs and behavior. Negative/evil thoughts attracts and brings more and more negative/evil energy.
Positive/good thoughts creates a positive/good energy that attracts more positive/good energy to you and into your life. It is extremely important and vital for you to be in charge of your own mind/thoughts, in control of your own personal power and to think highly of yourself. It is extremely vital to love yourself!!! If Jesus can love you enough to give His life for you, then shouldn't you love yourself as well? God created you and God does NOT make mistakes or junk!!! You are not a mistake, even though you have made mistakes, and   you are not junk!!!
Treat others like you want them to treat you. Know yourself, be true to yourself, love yourself, and take care of yourself, because no one else will do it for you.
Become truly aware of your thoughts... negative/evil or positive/good. You have the conscious choice to choose negative/evil or positive/good thoughts, personal power and energy.You have the conscious choice and power to think what you want and to create the kind of life you want. There are two types of decision makers inside of you, negative/evil and positive/good, which ever one that controls you determines what type of person you are and what happens in your life.
There is the "I", who is your higher self connected to God, your positive/good brain/thought power, the balanced and positive/good adult. Then there is the "Self", the ego, the inner child, who is very selfish, self-centered, self-destructive, and very negative/evil.
"I" (positive/good) should be in control of  the way "Self" (negative/evil) chooses to think, behave, react and manifest/produce it's self. "I" does not choose to live the way "Self" has been living in the past. "I" choose not to be depressed, fearful, sickly, negative/evil anymore. "I" choose to like and love myself, and give myself the right kind of validation I want & need to have a wonderful positive/good life. "I" choose to use my positive/good thoughts to create good health, beauty, love, joy, peace, tranquility, abundance and prosperity in myself and in my life. "I" choose to stop my negative/evil "Self" from creating anger, sadness, frustration, hate, fear, drama, chaos and poverty into my life!!!
You have the control over your self-image, your thoughts and your life, no matter what kind of life you were born into or raised up in!!! All you have to do is change your mindset!!!
When you take responsibility for your own mistakes and life, and stop blaming others, is when you become a mature and responsible adult!!! When you no longer blame others, for the messed up life you were dealt as a child and the messes you created in your life, is when you can start creating the life you desire and want, and start receiving the Blessings God has for your life.God is the Supplier of all our needs, wants and desires, and He can only give to us when we have a positive/good mindset/thoughts, and not blocking Him with our negative/evil mindset/thoughts.
Health, wealth and happiness is within each of us. Blessings brings positive/good results...Curses/evil creates more negativity/evil bad results.
Your thoughts and your spoken words makes you what you are and what your life is!!!
Change your negative/evil mindset/thoughts into positive/good mindset/thoughts and you will  change your life into the wonderful life you want and desire!!!

God's Mistake or Our Mistake?

God doesn't make mistakes!!!
As humans some have tried to argue that God does make mistakes and blames God for the bad things that happen in our lives. Hello... wake up and smell the smoke!!!
Some try to say God made a mistake, after creating such an awesome paradise called earth, by creating humans, starting with Adam and Eve. Creating humans wasn't God's mistake. God wanted someone, besides Himself, to enjoy and admire His awesome creation of paradise and someone for Him to socialize and commune with. 
Some may also argue that it was God's mistake of creating humans with the right of free will and free choice to chose to do God's Will or their own selfish sinful will. That wasn't a mistake on God's part!!! That is the mistake of humans and their ignorance of God and God's Word!!! 
God did not, does not and will not force Himself on us or into our lives, force us to love Him or force us to worship. God wants us to know of His unconditional and never ending love for us, but because of our own human ignorance we choose not to know the full love of God, because of our free will to go our own way and do our own selfish evil will. God wants humans to come to Him "FREELY" not by force from Him.
If you read the book of Genesis you will find where Eve made the free will of choice to defy God, by listening to Satan the snake and eating of the one fruit God told Adam and Eve not to eat. That was Eve's free will to choose to do or not to do. Satan the snake did not hold a gun to Eve's head and force her to sin by defying God's Word. She sinned and defied God's Word of her own free will.
If you continue to read you will find even more interesting facts of human mistakes of selfish evil ignorance when it comes to our own free will.
After Eve chose to defy God and chose evil over good, she didn't want to be alone in her choice of doing evil so she went to find her partner Adam. Eve enticed Adam to commit the same sin of defying God as she freely chose to do. So Adam freely chose to participate in defying God and God's Word by following Eve's actions of defiance and sin.
What is so interesting is that God did not make a mistake, Adam and Eve made the mistake!!! Adam and Eve made the mistake of freely defying God and freely chose to follow Satan to do evil.
Adam, who was to protect and guide Eve, hid from God because of his shame of freely choosing to defy God, instead of turning away from evil and standing strong for God.
When God confronted Adam of his free will to sin and defy God, what did Adam do? Adam tried to blame Eve for making him to sin against God. Excuse Me, but there is no where in the Bible that says Eve forced Adam or held a gun to Adam's head to force him to defy God and commit this sin. Adam made the choice of his own free will.
The mistakes are not God's mistakes but our own selfish human mistakes. We as humans have the free will to chose to do God's Will or our own selfish evil will. God gave us the right to our own free will, but the choices we make are our own and no one else.
It is our own free will to chose a godly mate or an evil mate; to raise our children as godly children or evil heathen children; to socialize with godly people or evil heathen people; to be addicted to a godly lifestyle or addicted to an evil lifestyle; to serve God or to serve Satan.
So when you take your last breath and are standing in front of God on judgement day, there will be NO ONE to blame but yourself, for your free will of choices of your own mistakes.
May God have mercy on us all, but it is our own free will of choices (good/Heaven or evil/Hell) that will tell just how much mercy that He will give us in the end.

BEWARE of BLAMERS!!!

Do you have a "Blamer" (negative/narcissist person) in your life, who makes you feel that you are always to blame, always your fault and nothing you do is ever right?
After spending time with this type person or just being associated with this person, makes you feel guilty, upset, emotionally exhausted, confused, useless and incompetent. This is a negative/narcissist person that is also known as a "blamer".
At first this narcissist person can be charming, very likable and very believing, without exposing their dark side. Then their dark side comes out which is the "blamer", their negative/narcissist personality. That is when you get hammered by their true personality (narcissist/negative) of them blaming you for everything wrong in their life, you are blamed for their mistakes and their deceptions/sins. Trying to be rational with this type person, show them you are hurt and innocent, does NOT work, it makes it even worse.
This type person is a "BLAMER", with a narcissist/negative personality. They blame others for anything and everything. They NEVER take responsibility or admit their wrong doings or their faults. This person is NOT an occasional blamer, they are a 24/ 7 continual blamer.
This blamer (narcissist/negative person) can appear to be very caring, charming, interested in you and others when you first meet them. It is not until later that you realize this relationship with this person is a nightmare from hell.
BEWARE: this blamer is the most destructive narcissist/negative person you can ever deal with, which will bring negative thinking and behavior into you and your life. This person will bring you anguish and distress as long as you associate with them.
This blamer can make you feel as though something is wrong with you, and if you were a better person  or smarter or nicer or just did the right things, then the relationship between you and the blamer would be better. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!! In dealing with the blamer you will come out feeling like it is all your fault, causing you depression, self loathing and self destructive tendencies. RUN, RUN, RUN!!!
The blamer (narcissist/negative person) does NOT see one thing wrong that they do. They believe they are always right and everyone else is wrong. The blamer thinks it is their duty to point out that everyone else is wrong, thinks they are helping by putting others down and telling them they are wrong, and by blaming others.The blamer (narcissist/negative person) has NO respect for others.
In their eyes they do NO wrong. The blamer loves only them self and no one else. They have no respect for them self or for others but they want to be respected, admired and envied.
Trying to defend and protect yourself from the blamer (narcissist/negative person) will only make the situation worse on you and they will attack you even more. If you try to point out your innocence or their wrong doings, they will attack you even more with a very explosive anger towards you. The blamer will even go as far as to set you up, make it appear to others that you are the evil one, everything is your fault and that they are innocent.
The blamer (narcissist/negative person) shows different sides of their personality/behavior to different people. They tend to flip behavior/personality; one minute everything is fine but the next minute they are angry.
The blamer will be highly admired by some people because they never see the blamer's dark side behavior/personality, that they are inflicting on their victims.
Blamers (narcissist/negative people) are very deceptive and manipulative at all times, not just occasionally.
If a blamer (narcissist) makes a mistake they tend to blame others immediately and start the attack on another person or persons before they can be caught in their wrong doings. The blamer (narcissist) sees NO wrong in lying and will lie when there is no need to lie. They throw their wrong doings onto others to cover up their evil/sins instead of admitting it and taking blame for their wrong doings.
The blamer (narcissist) can make you feel distressed, anxious, guilty and incompetent, after having to deal with them. The blamer (narcissist) can and will blame you even when you are no where in their life and have nothing to do with them. That is what a "Blamer" (narcissist) does, in order to try & make others think they are perfect and do no wrong. They have no regard and no respect for anyone or their feelings or their life.
A blamer/narcissist chooses their victims. When they are choosing their victims they are very calculating as to what they are trying to achieve with their bullying, manipulation and deception.
The blamer/narcissist can even manipulate and deceive experts, so do not blame yourself if you have fell into the trap of a narcissist person. Just cut off all communication and contact with this person, and run the other way just as hard as you can run!!!